Love/Relationships - This Gua sits on the upper-right hand corner of the Bagua. This gua is about love and your significant other but it's also about the other types of relationships that we have in our lives. Friends, family and co-workers. The root word in relationship is "relate". So the question
you have to ask yourself is; How do the items in my environment (home or office) relate to one another?
Now take a walk over to this section of your home and take a good look
at it and see how it looks but also sense how it feels too...Does it feel and look loved and loving? Is this space full of unloved things? Do you see things that make you think of a "Couple"? Does it look inviting? Does it say "Welcome guests"? Is this space a disorganized mess? Do you have old and broken items here? Is this a storage room full of items from the past? Do you see what I am getting at here...what you keep in this area of your home affects the relationships that you have in your life...it really is as simple as that.
Note: If you are divorced and looking for love having your old wedding albums in your closet of your Master bedroom is probably not a good way to attract a new love in your life. Everything and I do mean EVERYTHING in your home affects your life either in a positive or in a negative way.
What can this part of the Bagua help you to attract into your life?
-Marriage or moving in with the one you love
-Finding "the one"
-Having a better relationship with your significant other
-Getting along with family, friends and coworkers
-Putting the spice back into your marriage/relationship
The best colors: Red, Pink, White
When you think of love the above colors usually come to mind so
put these colors in this area. However, "Cures" do not have to be seen to work. If you do not want your walls covered in "Pink" then just add the color pink in a drawer, closet or in some part of the decor. The intention is
there and every time you see whatever you put there, it will remind you of what you want to attract.
The element for this gua is Earth
What not to have in this gua:
-Clutter (stagnant energy = stagnant results)
-Dirt and dust (attracts negative energy)
-Broken things (broken promises, relationships)
-Too much water (water and earth creates Mud - YUCK)
-Dead plants, dried flowers and/or the ashes of a loved one(dead things attract dead energy)
-Games (you don't want to be playing games...do you?)
-Pictures of unhappy people
Cures" to place in this gua:
-Plants (the earth in the pot and the growth of relationships)
-Art that have couples in it (no pictures with single men or women here)
-Things in two's (2 Doves, 2 candles, 2 chairs, 2 dressers, 2 end tables)
-Symbols that mean "Love" to you (Romantic items)
#2 is the number for this gua as in 2 people in a relationship.
Next week we will learn about the FAMILY gua. Enjoy your evening!
I am a Certified Feng Shui Practitioner, Professional Organizer, Young living Essential Oils Distributor and mother of two children.